There are times in life...

when the only thing you can do, is be utterly speechless.



Today feels like one of those days. I hope everyone else is having a better day than I am!

xoxo

"I look once more...

just around the riverbend; Beyond the shore; Where the gulls fly free; Don't know what for; What I dream the day might send; Just around the riverbend!" -Pocahontas

Disney has always been known for making films that can relate to real life. In the movie Pocahontas, the Indian princess is forced to choose between two ways of life. Her choice is represented in her song, "Just Beyond the Riverbend". In the song, Pocahontas must choose between two courses of river. The smooth and gentle path, or the unrealiable, ever-changing course.

Many times in our life we are faced with important decisions. These choices can utterly change the course of our lives. One bad decision can permanatly devestate your outcome as easy as one good choice can better your future. Most of the time, when facing important decision, people don't always look ahead. Many don't understand the effects that one choice can have on a person now or in future years. My advice for everyone would be to consider all possible outcomes before making an important choice. Consider how the decision you make will effect yourself and others. Make a choice that will not only positively effect your life now, but many years into the future.

While some decisions can create major changes in your livestyle; others are simply difficult because of personal taste! Today, I went prom dress shopping. When I left my house this morning I knew in my head the dress I wanted; and I was confident that they would have my perfect gown. Over the past few weeks I had literally stalked this dress and had warned my friends about buying it. So, when I got to CBs in Lancaster, I was ready to purchase my perfect prom gown. Fortunatly, they had my dress... however, it was 8 sizes too large! So, being that prom is too close to order a dress from the internet and expect to have it altered, I was left to skim through the selections they had availiable. Because the store is so wonderful; everything I tryed on, I loved! I can honestly say that I tried on at least 9 dresses that I fell in love with! Unfortunatly, you can only wear one to prom. So I was left with an important decision. Should I choose the fun animal print, the flirty pink number with the lovely back, or the teal dress that my mother loved (this is also the dress that my mother loved a month ago while I was trying on pageant dresses!)? I had no idea what to do!

But, with the help of my wonderful consultant, I narrowed my selection to two beautiful dresses. I had to choose between the pretty teal dress and the black and whilte giraffe print gown. Although the decision between two prom dresses doesn't sound like a huge deal; I had to consider every possible outcome of my decision. If I were to choose the teal dress, it would be pretty, but it wouldn't have made me feel like a princess. However, when I wore the black dress I felt stunning. So finally, I made a decision and the black dress is all mine! So, like I said earlier, my advice to everyone would be to consider the outcomes of your decisions. Whether they be big and life-altering, or small like prom dress shopping; think before you act!

Happy Saturday! Like I mentioned above, today I picked out the perfect prom dress! I'm so excited! Rachel, my sister, also picked out a dress that looks lovely on her. I wish April would hurry up and arrive because I'm dying for prom night! Anyway, I think today Rachel, Lindsey, and I are going to have a girl's day and watch movies! But first, I think I'm going to take a little nap. I'm dead tired.

Here is a picture of my dress from the internet! I have the one with the pink tie! In my opinion, it looks better on me than in the photos; But enjoy anyway!


xoxo

"Find a guy...

who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her'!" - Unknown

As surprising as it is, I haven't yet dedicated a blog to Chandler David Jones; and he constantly reminds me. So, today; February 26th, I will dedicate my blog post in honor of my amazing boyfriend, Mr. Chandler Jones!

Almost a year and a half ago, I started dating the wonderful Mr. Jones. Although it hasn't exactly been a fairy tale; I'll admit, that we've shared some "magic" moments. So I thought, what a better way to explain our relationship than stating five things that I find amazingly attractive within Senor Chandler?! Here they are:

5)The way he talks is simply adorable! Okay, that sounds kinda strange, but it is true. Chandler has a habit of making up little sayings or statements; and they are hilarious. I can honestly state, that he makes me laugh every single day. And everyone knows that the way easiest way to enter a girl's heart is to make her laugh!

4) He's a true gentlemen! My name is Rebecca Cobb, and I have extremely high standards; and I'm sure Chandler will agree. I was raised to believe that a man should always do certain things for a woman. This means opening doors, paying for dinner, and always having a jacket on-hand in case the lady gets cold. Now I'm sure your saying that chivalry is dead... blah blah blah; but not in our relationship. Chandler does an excellent job of displaying actions of a true Southern gentlemen; enough to please my high standards!

3) He has goals! In my opinion, the biggest turnoff is a guy who doesn't plan ahead for his future. There is absolutely not chance, what-so-ever, that I will end up with someone who doesn't have any aspirations. Chandler is the opposite; thank God! He actually has personal dreams and goals for himself. And it's the most amazing thing to see someone you care about, try and succeed.

2) He has his priorities in order! Priorities are a big issue in relationships. Girls want to be high on their boyfriend's priority list; but not higher than the things that are most important. Chandler has figured out what is most important. It was neccessary for a boyfriend of mine, to understand the importance of God and family. In my opinion, a girlfriend should fall into the third (or tied with second) category. Chandler knows the importance of his faith and his family; it's a major positive!

1) He's my best friend! Most importantly, Chandler David Jones and I are best friends. We just seem to naturally "click-together!" I can tell him anything and I can always trust him with my secrets. It's extremely important that a boyfriend and girlfriend connect on many levels. One of the levels is definately friendship. If you aren't friends, how are you ever supposed to be more? The fact that Chandler and I share that unique bond really brings us together!

In my opinion, I have the greatest boyfriend in the world. Even though we have fights; it doesn't effect how close we are. I look forward to spending a long time with Mr. Chandler David Jones!





ps. Chandler, if you are reading this; I'm sorry!

xoxo

" I need a vacation!" - Jeezy!

I've got the winter blues! The weather for the last two days has been absolutely freezing. Plus, there is a horrible wind blowing that sends a shiver straight down to my bones. Basically, Camden, South Carolina is really really cold!

At the beginning of February, that dang groundhog saw his shadow. That meant that we would be recieving 6 more weeks of winter! Well, I'm at my wits-end. I've always considered myself a more of a "warm girl". Although the winter provides some amazing holidays and the opportunity for snow; I've always loved the spring and summer months! So, I'm getting a little antsy for a warm-up. Because of my anxiety, I figured I would take the opporunity to "heat-up" my blog a little! Well, everyone knows that the summer months are all about taking amazing vacations. During May, June, July, and August people flock from all over the world to enjoy many lavish vacation spots. Well, the hottest vacation destinations have officially been updated. So I thought I'd add a little heat and officially take everyone on a little vacation by announcing the top ten, best vacation spots in the world!

10. Bora Bora! These French Polynesian islands are among the most beautiful islands in the world. The crystal clear waters and white sands have attracted many people; especailly for honeymoons. Celebs like Charlize Theron, Sharon Stone, and Nicole Kidman have enjoyed this island paradise.


9. Turtle Island, Fiji! What do you get when you add one island, 100 staff, 14 private beaches, and a maximum of 14 couples... the perfect vacation spot. The privately owned island in the South Pacific accommodates no more than 28 guests at any given time, creating an environment of total privacy and seclusion. Turtle Island has played host to couples like Brittany Spears and Kevin Federline, and Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey!

8. Boracay! Also in the Asian Pacific, the island of Boracay provides one of the most breathtakingly beautiful places in the world. Boracay is the perfect destination for both those seeking relaxation and those in search of adventure. Many beaches, including the White Beach and the Bulabog Beach, provide opportunities for windsurfing and jet skiing.

7. Maui! Maui is the second largest island in Hawaii. It's not only known for its incredible beauty but also for welcoming both romantic couples and families with open arms. Everyone can find something to do in Maui. From romantic walks on the beach to hula lessons, Maui provides excellent ways to spend every day!

6. Anguilla! If it's a Caribbean escape you're after, the stars will be out in Anguilla. Known for its miles of pristine, uncrowded beaches and gourmet dining, Anguilla offers a luxurious island experience. Stars like Jay-Z, Beyonce, David Arquette, and Kevin Bacon have been spotted in Anguilla.

5. St. Tropez, Frace! There is no way to compile this list without mentioning the legendary St. Tropez. This small fishing village has become famous for P. Diddy's yacht parties. Many flock to St. Tropez to experience the town's amazing clubs and exquisite French food.

4. Lake Como, Italy! Lake Como is aa sanctuary of total serenity and unrivaled scenery. Time stands still in this Italian haven. The never-ending sunshine has been known to attract many of the elite. Stars like George Clooney and Avril Lavigne are frequently visiting.


3. Cabo San Lucas! When Hollywood's royalty need a fast escape, Cabo San Lucas is never far away. Waiting just two hours outside of L.A., "Cabo" is never without its fair share of vacationers. Notables such as Jessica Simpson, Eva Longoria, and Dustin Hoffman call "Cabo" a second home. The beautiful beaches provide everything from exhilarating nightlife to magnificent ocean waves.

2. South Beach, Miami! South Beach is the epicenter of beachy glamour. Priding itself on its timeless grace, subtle charm, and inspirational environment, South Beach is truly one of a kind. Stars like Shakira, Madonna, and Janet Jackson have been spotted amoung the Miami nightlife.

1. Aruba! Aruba provides vacationers with the ultimate get-away. The crystal clear waters and giant palms create an environment that you wouldn't want to leave! The seven-mile strip along the west coast is lined with resorts and packed with activity. Beaches such as Palm Beach and Baby Beach do an amazing job of creating the perfect vacation!

I'm already craving an island get-away!

Hello Sunshine! I'm so excited that the weekend is almost here. I've had such a stressful week. Unfortunatly, next week is even more packed; but I'm not thinking about that right now. So, this weekend I'm really excited about picking out my prom dress. I'm going shopping Saturday and hopefully I'll pick a truly amazing gown.

Wish me luck!

xoxo

"The way I see it...

you should live everyday like it's your birthday!" - Paris Hilton

Well, it's that time of year again! Every February 23rd, the most wonderful thing happens... I celebrate my birthday! Words cannot express how excited I am to be away from the dreaded "16 years old!" Now that I'm 17, I feel so mature. After all, I can finally watch rated "R" movies and not have to worry about getting kicked out of the Sandhills Shopping Center! It's such a wonderful feeling! So, considering I am now officially seventeen years old, I figured I should take the opportunity to look back on my previous year!

Last year was a year of "firsts!" I got my first car, got in my first accident, it was the first time I got in the tanning bed, and drove the golfcart at Ocean Lakes for the first time! Basically, being 16 was a lot of fun! However, there were some things that didn't really work out. For instance, I would always get kicked out of Sandhills Shopping Center. Almost everytime I went to see a movie or went to get something to eat, the workers would hastle me for my ID. Once, they even threatened to lock me in a room until my parents got there. Thank goodness, I'll never have to deal with that again. Also, being 16 just sounded so young. When someone would ask "How old are you?" It was always a bummer to say 16. After all, its so close to 15. In my opinion, saying that your 17 sounds so much older and mature. I love it!

There's also a more serious side to approaching birthdays. When you have a birthday, it means that you're really getting older. In some ways it depresses me to think that I'll only be a teenager for a few more years. Next year, I'll be 18 years old! Then, shortly I'll be off to college and officially a legal adult! Sometimes that thought is a bit scary and a little overwelming. Now don't get me wrong, I am so ready for college! But sometimes, the thought of actually being on my own intimidates me. However, I still have a little while before that. Anyway, it's always important to remember a few things when approaching a birthday:

1. Act your age! Since birthdays signify that you are a year older, it's important to embrace your age. As you get older, take into consideration that you are getting older, and that means your maturity level must also rise! It's always fun to act young, but there is a time and place to grow up!

2. Look back! As you end a chapter of your life, it's important to take the time for reflection. A lot can happen in a year. Because of this, it's always a good idea to take some time to look back on all the fun times you had. When approaching a birthday, take the opportunity to reflect on all the amazing things you did during the previous year. You can always learn something!

3. Have fun! Birthdays are about fun! I know that getting older isn't always the most exciting thing, but you have to enjoy the time as much as possible. Spend your birthday with your friends and family! Celebrate your life in the best way possible, by having fun!

4. Set goals! When approaching a new age, be sure to analyze your true aspirations. On your birthday, realize what you really want to do, and set a goal to do it! Make a promise to yourself to achieve everything you've ever wanted to do!

So today, I'm going to reflect on the past, and plan for my futures!

In other news: Since today was my official birthday, it was a day full of surprises! During school today, my two good friends and I, (Madison, Mary Hay, and I) skipped newspaper to drive to Sandhills to eat Chick-Fil-A! It was really fun! I, however, was really surprised when we pulled into the parking lot and saw my boyfriends truck! My friends had secretly planned for my boyfriend to surprise me! It was so sweet! Now, my whole family is about to come over to my house to have a family dinner; so of course, I'll have some pretty cool stories to tell tomorrow! I'll be sure to keep everyone posted on the details!

The cake Chandler got me this weekend; before I knew he was coming today! (I thought the picture was appropriate!)



Alright, I'm off to sample some of my birthday cake!

xoxo

Above all...

a woman should be unforgetable!


"I believe that everything happens for a reason, people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together!"
- Marilyn Monroe

Make a mark that is not easily forgotten!

xoxo

"Ability is...

what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you will do!" -Lou Holtz

Everyone wants to do something amazing! We all have goals we want to accomplish. Whether we want to win an olympic medal, lose 100 pounds, or find a cure for cancer; everyone has a dream they wish to accomplish. The secret to accomplishing our dreams is motivation!

Face it, without being motivated, it's hard to get anything done. If you wake-up every morning without any goals or aspirations, your day is going to go pretty badly. Therefore, today, everyone should take the opportunity to find something that motivates them! Find the inspiration you need to really achieve greatness! Form a goal! Get motivated! And change the world!

For those of you who are looking for a quick way to gain some inspiration... I have a wonderful idea! It's a quick and easy craft project that can really motivate you, as well as make your room look a little more personal! It's called an "inspiration wall!" And I think you should really try it. I did, and I'm already feeling some major motivation! Here's how you do it:


Step 1: Find a blank piece of canvas. Your canvas can be anything from a piece of cardboard, to a thick poster from Wal-Mart. Also, the cardboard or poster can be any size you like. The size really depends on your personal taste; and where you want to hang it!


Step 2: Gather up all your old magazines, pictures, and quotes. Cut out images you find personally motivating and scatter them around your board. These pictures can be celebrities you look up to, fashions you find inspiring, or pictures of your family and friends! Just gather anything that makes you smile!

Step 3: Take all your pictures and arrange them in a cool pattern. The point is to make a fun collage; so arrange your pictures in any way you want. After you found a pattern that looks good to you, attach the pictures using simple tape or glue! Let the glue settle for a little while. After your college has dried, hang it up, and enjoy!

Hopefully the collage will add a little more inspiration in your life! It's already doing wonders for me! After all, the key to accomplishing your dreams, is finding your motivation!

In other news! Today has been a pretty relaxing day! I've had a really good time sleeping in and just resting for the majority of the afternoon. However, later on this afternoon, Chandler is coming! So I'm really excited about that. And then tomorrow, I'm pretty sure my grandma is taking me out to dinner for my birthday; which is coming up on Tuesday! Anyway, I've got to get moving! I'm still in my pajamas!

"If you'll not settle for anything less than your best, you will be amazed at what you can accomplish in your lives!" - Vince Lombardi

xoxo

"Carry out a random act of kindness,

with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you." - Princess Diana

As a child, all I wanted was to be a princess! I was fascinated with the beautiful lifestyle of the fairy-tale princesses, like Cinderella and Arial. When I was younger, I would play "princess" for hours! I would dress myself up in a gown (most of the time it was from the previous Halloween), my mother's heels, and a pretty tiara. I would pretend that I was ruling a country and that everyone in the land looked up to me. Then I would imagine my "Prince Charming" riding in on a white horse and saving me from some upcoming danger. Soon after, we would get married and rule the kingdom together; we would live happily ever after!

Every girl wants to be a princess! It's a natural thing! When we're younger, we are captivated by the pretty crowns and elegant ballgowns. As we get older, we wish for the attention from our own "Prince Charming," and the possibiliy of ruling a land. Basically, the allure of being a princess is hard to escape. Hollywood has also done a wonderful job of idolizing the role of a princess. Many, many, many, movies have been made, centering around the possibility of a modern-day princess. Because of the strong emphasis from Hollywood, Disney, and other sources; the mentality for wanting to be a princess is still very common! Everyone wants their "happily ever after!"

Princess Diana had everything a girl could have ever asked for. She was beautiful, intelligent, graceful, classy, and she was a modern-day princess! After marrying into the royal family, Diana Spencer became royality! Her life now was constantly in the spotlight. For some women, that's all they dream about; but for Princess Diana, it wasn't enough. This elegant lady chose to use her popularity for the better. Diana became the spokeswoman for many charities and organizations including AIDs research. She reached out to the people who needed it! In fact, she was the first woman photographed touching an AIDs victim. Basically, Princess Di, used her position of power to better not only herself; but in a way, her kingdom!

As a woman, or young girl, you should take this story to heart. But not only that, I believe that every girl should consider themselves as a princess. Everyone is unique and special and should therefore be treated as such! Throughout your life, you should always hold yourself like royality. Be classy, poise, intellegent, and most importantly, extremely kind. See yourself not only as a princess, but as a person capable of making an impact. Use your position to positively affect someone else's life. Be yourself, be generous, and be the princess you deserve to be!

In other news:I got a new phone today and it was love at first sight! I've never been that good with phones, but I'm hoping that my relationship with this phone will be much better. It's an LG Envy Touch, and it's adorable. I'm really thankful that I got it; considering my old phone was pretty much dead! On another note, today is Friday! This week actually went by pretty fast, but I'm still thankful for my two day break! Also, after watching the preview for The Last Song yesterday, I fell in love with the song played. I'm probably late on discovering it... but it's really good, so I'll post the link on my blog!

When I Look At You; Miley Cyrus!


Everyone needs a beautiful melody when the nights are long!

xoxo

"Time is free...

but it's priceless. You can't own it, but you can use it. You can't keep it, but you can spend it. Once you've lost it you can never get it back." -Harvey Mackay

Time is a depressing subject. Most people avoid the subject entirely. Afterall, it's not really something most people want to talk about. As humans, we are given only a small amount of time to really enjoy our lives or make a difference in the world. Eventually, everyone will succumb to time. Like all living creatures, we cannot live forever; therefore it's important that we take advantage of the time we are bestowed.

Here's a break-down of the average human's life:

The average man lives to be 78 years old.
One-third of your life, you spend sleeping. That's over 20 years!
18 years in school; that's excluding higher education!
Over 5 years at work!
1 year in the bathroom alone!
5 years waiting in line!
4 years doing housework!
8 months opening junk mail!
6 years cleaning!
6 months waiting at a traffic light!
and one year looking for lost possesions!

Basically, we waste a lot of our time! Time should be looked at as a gift. Considering we don't have much of it, we should really savor our moments!

Recently, I read The Last Song by Nicholas Sparks. If you're familiar with the story, I'm sure it's one of the best books you've ever read! Now I may be a little bias, considering Sparks is my favorite author, but the story truely touched my heart. It also managed to teach me a lot; especially about the importance of time. The story describes a teenage girl (Ronnie) who's parents have just underwent a sudden divorce. Being a teenager, she does the natural thing, and completely shuts her father out of her life. Ronnie refuses to visit, talk, or even read her father's letters. She ends up not talking to her father for three whole years. When she finally does talk to him, she uncovers a terrible secret that could prevent her from ever speaking to him again. When Ronnie finally wants to gain a relationship with her father, it's too late. Although I don't want to give much of the story away, I must say; that the book really teaches the importance of treasuring time! The protagonist, Ronnie, wasted three valuable years with her father because of a petty grudge.

Situations like Ronnie's happen everyday. Somewhere, sometime; someone isn't taking advantage of the time they have been given. The sad part is that most people don't realize it until it's already too late. Fortunatly, for Ronnie; the book ends on a positive note as she deals with her loss through love. My advice for everyone today, would be to really value your time. Every moment should be lived to the fullest extent! Carpe diem; seize the day!

Today! Today was "muy divertida!" I woke up this morning in a great mood. I don't know why, it just felt like a good day. Maybe it's because the weekend is so close by... I don't know! But anyway, After finishing The Last Song, I realized that I'm going to have to find another book to spark my intrest! Also, I would like to add that The Last Song has actually been made into a movie recently! So I'm really excited about seeing it; it would definately be a good use of my time! So for those of you who haven't yet seen the trailer; I'll include it. It looks amazing. In the meantime, read the book!

The Last Song!


"Sometimes you have to be a part from people you love, but that doesn't make you love them any less. Sometimes you love them more." -Nicholas Sparks (The Last Song)

xoxo

"What I've learned...

is not to change who you are, because eventually you're going to run out of new things to become." - Taylor Swift

Everyone wants to fit in! But sometimes it's better to stand out!

In high school especially, there's a constant pressure to "have what everyone else has". From experience, I can honestly say that I understand this pressure. For example, a few years back (maybe my freshmen year) a trend emerged that I simply couldn't be left out of... black fingernail polish. Everyone painted their fingernails black. It was cute and a little edgy! So of course, I joined in. I rode right to Wal-Mart and bought myself some dark black fingernail polish. Unfortunatly I found out later that the polish was actually dark purple; but that's beside the point. The point of my little story was to emphasize the pressure of "fitting in!" No one wants to be the girl who sits alone at lunch! Even if you're the type of person who stresses being a "non conformist," you still want to be surrounded by someone. At least to share ideas or something.

I believe that you should be the type of person to start trends! As cliche as that sounds, it's actually true. A person that isn't afraid to do something, most of the time, will go farther in their life that someone who simply blends in. This also means that you should embrace your individuality! Everyone has something that makes them unique. Whether it's your haircolor, physical traits, personality, or passion; embrace what makes you different.

Also, you shouldn't try to change who you are inside. Everyone is specially made, with different likes and dislikes. Because of this fact, you shouldn't try and become someone you're not. It's much easier to just be yourself!

I also believe that you should find something that makes you happy and embrace it. Most people are born with a talent, gift, or just something that they're drawn to. In my opinion, you should use that special gift to really impact the world. For example, if you're gifted with a talented voice... use it! It will not only make you happy, but it could possibly have a positive impact of the life of another. Another example would be my good friend, Jessica. She has a "passion for fashion" and she really embraces her gift of style! I personally, haven't quite uncovered my true passion yet. I'm interested in a lot of things, but I haven't exactly discovered the one thing that could really impact myself as well as others. Hopefully soon, I'll find the one thing that can really make me shine!

"Now heres whats happening in your neck of the woods!" (Al Roker; the Today Show): Today has been pretty sweet! It was definately the most stressful day of the week, regarding tests and quizzes. But I got through it! The most fun part of my day occured just a few short minutes ago when my mom called me a "hater"! I didn't even realize she knew what that word meant; but apparently she's picking up the new "lingo" fast! Also, lately i've been really hooked on Fit TV! If you have regular channels or Cable TV, you probably have no idea what I'm talking about. But anyway it's a channel that plays exercise videos nonstop! And its fabulous! I really enjoy the dancing videos! Even though I'm not the best dancer... it's still a lot of fun! I seriously recommend it! For those who don't know what I'm talking about, I included a link to the channel's website. You really should try it out!
http://fittv.discovery.com/

Also, for your entertainment, I found this really adorable picture of my puppy on my step-father's memory card! He's so cute with his blue eyes and his ear turned around!

Bedford "Blue" Moseley!




Alright, I'm off to do some Namaste Yoga!

xoxo

"Happiness cannot be...

traveled to, owned, earned, worn, or consumed. Happiness is the spirtual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude." -David Waitley

Now that 2010 is officially underway, it's important for people to remember to stay happy! Happiness may not seem like a huge deal, but it's actually severely important. When you're happy, it's easier to go about your day. Everyone knows that when you have a smile on your face, the day just seems to go by a little better; and brighter!

Also, winter months have a tendancy to lead to depression. Although winter is almost officially over, it's still important to remember to be happy throughout the remaining weeks! Because of the cold season, "YES Magazine" recently published an article reminding readers of a few important tips to stay happy and healthy. After reading the article and even writting a newspaper story for my high school on the topic, I decided that I should publish a short blog, reminding people how important happiness is! Plus, they're actually really helpful! They're bound to brighten anyone's day!

10 Tips for a Better '10!

1. Smile! During a stressful week, it's common for most Americans to forget to smile! Smiling can be a person's greatest accsessory! A simple smile can easily brighten your day, or someone else's!

2. Make Friends! Friends are everyone's backbone! Friends can help you through any situation. Without friends, it's sometimes hard to see the 'fun' in every situation. So when you get the opportunity... make friends!

3. Avoid Comparisons!Americans have the mindset to constantly compare everything. "Keeping up with the Joneses" has become a way of life. But in reality, comparisons can really bring a person down. It's truely hard to feel happy about yourself when you're constantly comparing it with someone else! So try and avoid the need to compare!

4. Have Goals! A life without goals is meaningless. Without ambition, it's pretty hard to get anywhere. So decide what you want to do, and go for it!

5. Devalue Money! In today's economy, money is an issue. So, when you get the opportunity, don't think about it. People who constantly think about funds are more likely to become stressed or anxious. So give yourself a break and forget the cash!

6. Say 'Thank you'! It's no surprise that morals have almost become a thing of the past for some people. However, it's always important to remember to be grateful. When you express gratitude, it actually makes you feel better about yourself. So when someone does something for you, please say "thanks"!

7. Take Initiative! Your work or school day can easily be affected by the amount of initiative you take. It's more rewarding when you approach the situation with a positive attitude. When you face your job or schoolwork with more initiative you are more creative and feel more in control! So stay positive and take some initiative!

8. Carpe Diem! Although it was hard to get out of bed this morning, you should always take the opportunity to appreciate that you were alive! Everyday should be looked at as a blessing and every moment should be enjoyed. Carpe Diem; seize the day!

9. Give Back! Charitys are always helpful! They take into consideration, the people who really need help. There are always charities and organizations that could use your help or donation. Giving back really makes you feel good about yourself. Plus, it really helps! So take the opportunity to give back!

10. Exercise! Everyone knows that exercise is always a positive thing! But it can really make you feel good about yourself! Not only will you feel better about your body, but exercising releases endorphins that can stimulate happiness! So get movin'!

Follow these tips to ensure your year is the best it can be!


Back to reality: Today has been kinda slow. Nothing extra exciting has really happened. A few members of my family are home sick, so I'm trying to avoid my homestead as much as possible. Especially since I just got over a sickness recently!I'm also a bit upset considering my cell phone refuses to send text messages! Ugh! But, the remainder of my Valentines Day was amazing. Chandler and I went to dinner and then saw a movie. Of course we saw "Valentine's Day!" I don't think there could've been a more appropriate movie availiable! Anyway, I loved it! It seriously made me smile and totally completed my date! Everyone should see it! And just incase you don't know what I'm talking about... I'll include the trailer!

So, for your enjoyment, here's the preview for "Valentine's Day!"



Happy Tuesday!

xoxo

"You know it's love when...

all you want is that person to be happy, even if you're not part of their happiness." -Julia Roberts

What is love? To some, love is defined by material pleasures; How much someone spends or where someone is willing to take you out for dinner. However, in my opinion, love is so much more. Love can be found in many places and in many different forms. With that, there are many, many different kinds of love. For example:

1. Love for your friends: Without a doubt, everyone has friends you can't live without. Friends are, by far, some of the most important people in life. They can help you, comfort you, make you laugh, and so much more. The love you feel for your friends is something that everyone feels. It's like a safety net. Friends provide you with a comfortable and fun setting. Because of this, it's natural for a person to grow extremely attached. Without friends, there would be a inner void that couldn't easily be filled. The love expressed in a friendship is severely important and extremely hard to break. Friends should be there for you when you need them. Therefore, you should always love your friends!
"I'll lean on you, and you lean on me, and we'll be okay!" -Dave Matthews Band

2. Love for your family: Your family should represent your strong foundation. From the moment you entered the world, your family has loved you unconditionally. The bond between a family is something that cannot ever be broken, simply because they have been with you from the beginning. This also means that they know, pretty much, everything about you. Although the bond between family should be the strongest, it's also most likely to be hurt. Because you spend so much time with your family, it's easy to become angry with them. However, you should always remember that your family will always be there for you. There love is unyeilding and so should yours be in return!
"In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony." -Eva Burrows

3. Love for your pet: I love my animals! I love everything about my pets! The love one feels for an animal, is the love of companionship. Pets are totally dependent upon their owners. Therefore, the love you feel for them is almost like a motherly love. Since you are the one who feeds, waters, and takes care of them; it's natural for you to fall in love with them. An animal can also provide the perfect partner. They give you a friend and they return the love you give to them. It doesn't matter how long you leave the house, when you come back, you know your pet will be sooooo happy to see you! The love they give is undeniable.
"An animal is the only thing on earth that will love you more than you love yourself." -Josh Billings

4. Love for your significant other: Above all, the love for your partner can be the most important. Within our lives, the thing we are all searching for, is the love of another. Some people spend their whole lives searching for an abstract idea of love with another being. In my opinion, love with another person isn't just an idea or even a feeling. I believe that love is a commitment. When you say you love someone, you are saying much more than just three little words. When you say "I love you," you are commiting yourself to that person. You are saying that, out of anyone else in the world, you want to be with that person. The promise in those three words is huge! However, the happiness it can bring is even bigger! When you find that one person that truely makes you happy... it's the best feeling in the world! My advice to anyone who is searching for their love, would simply be, to not give up. True love is out there, you just have to be willing to commit yourself!
"The best thing in life to hold on to, is each other!" -Audrey Hepburn

So this Valentine's Day, don't be afraid to love someone. Whether it be a friend, a family member, a pet, or a significant other; open yourselves up to love! It's truely amazing!

On another note: This weekend has been absolutely amazing! First, it snowed! It never snows in South Carolina and if it does, it never sticks! But it did this weekend. We got 4-5 inches at my house! I loved it, so did my dogs! Also, today has been wonderful... and it just got started. My lovely boyfriend surprised me this morning with flowers, candy, and a homemade calender! (I've been talking about wanting a cute calender for a while!) But anyway, it really warmed my heart! But apparently we have a full day ahead of us. I think we're going to see "Valentine's Day" at the movies and possibly eating dinner at California Dreamin'. I'm really excited. I'll keep everyone posted on the events!

Snow Pictures!





Anyway, I'm off to enjoy the day with my darling boyfriend!

xoxo

"To send a letter...

is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything but your heart!" -Phyllis Theroux

People use the US Mail Service everyday. Bills, magazines, and newspapers are commonly sent throughout the country every single day. Sadly, mailing letters has become a thing of the past. Before email and text messages, mailing letters was the central way of communication. Friends, family, and couples would mail out their feelings daily.

In my opinion, mailing a letter is one of the sweetest things someone can do. Anyone can write an email or send a text; but it takes a truely caring person to take the time to write a letter. When you write, you are completely exposed. Your feelings are naked for everyone to see. When you write, all your emotions, feelings, and thoughts are translated on a simple piece of paper. Letters are beautiful. They are a way to connect with someone any distance away. Now you may be thinking, "an email can do that!" But it's not the same! An email can hide emotions. An email doesn't seem to have a "life of it's own". When you write a letter, you are really telling someone that you care. Plus, there is nothing better than recieving a letter from someone! Everyone knows that! You just get this warm feeling that means, someone, somewhere is thinking about you. An email or a text doesn't seem to portray the same types of feelings.

My advice to everyone today would be, to write someone a message! Whether it be a family member, a friend, or a boyfriend or girlfriend; write someone a little note and stick it in the mail! Then you'll really understand the power and true meaning of a letter! Plus, it most definately will brighten your day... and someone else's!


In today's news: Today is our last full day of school for the week and I'm looking forward to my loooong weekend! I really need a little vacation from the constant stress of school. Also, tomorrow, the Winter Olympics premiere and I'm really excited! I love to watch the talented athletes perform. I believe that if I could redo one thing about my life, I would go back and start training for a cool sport really really really young! Then I might have been an Olympic athlete! Anyway, my favorite sport to watch is ice skating. The moves are just so pretty and graceful! Unfortunatly, I wasn't gifted with a wonderful sense of balance. Even though I really wish I was.

Okay well, I'm off to finish homework and maybe plan a little "pre-Olympic get-together"!

Go Team USA!

xoxo

"Sparkles...

are a girl's best friend!" -GLAMOUR Magazine

To some girls, outfits aren't complete without a little sparkle. Sequins, gemstones, and glitter can provide that extra "pazazz" that everyone is looking for! However, to others, sparkles can be a little much. Over-done gleam can be percieved as tacky or gawdy. Therefore, many women are afraid to add a little sparkle to their daily outfits.

In my opinion, every woman should take the opportunity to really shine! The concept of adding sequins, glitter, or gemstones should be looked at with a different perspective. For example, in the natural environment some of the most beautiful objects have been known to shine. Natural metals, diamonds, and stars have become famous for their unique and beautiful luster. These specific elements are also products of millions and millions of hard work! Stars, for example, take well over a million years for a gas cloud to condense into a new star. After the star has been created, it is given the beautiful opportunity to display it's sparkle for the world to see!

So now, I'm sure you're wondering what this had to do with shiny dresses or tops! Well, in my personal opinion, each individual has been wonderfully and uniquely made. Like the star, it takes a while for a person to be created. Which means that when the opportunity arises, an individual should embrace their features and add a little sparkle! I believe that every girl should be allowed to jazz up their daily lives with some sequins, or gems, or glitter! Young ladies should be proud of who they are and not afraid to enhance their look with a little sheen. Believe in yourself and seize your opportunity to shine!

If you're looking for some inspiration for embracing your own "sparkle", Joanna Pacitti's "Watch Me Shine" always makes me feel a little "brighter"! Here's the lyrics!

"I'm not
Your average type
Of girl
I'm gonna show
The world
The strength in me
That sometimes they can't see
I'm about to
Switch my style
And soon things may get wild
But I will prove
I can conquer anything

So from my head to toe
I'm taking full control
I'll make it on my own
This time
(Better watch me shine)

CHORUS:
Better watch out
Going for the knockout
And I won't stop
Till I'm on top now
Not gonna give up
Until I get what's mine
Better check that
I'm about to upset
And I'm hot now
So you better step back
I'm taking over
So watch me shine"

In lighter news: Today I had a Spanish test. Our first Spanish test for the new semester and it was harddddd! Honestly, I've never been one that really had to worry about her grades; especially in Spanish. Well, not today! I'm sure that when our Spanish teacher sees my grade she'll be very... unhappy. Considering I am Spanish Club President. But you know, it's okay. Everyone has a bad grade every-once-in-a-while. I won't let it get me down. However, today is a good day because Chandler David Jones didn't have to work. That means he can devote the majority of his day talking to me! Anyway, I'm off to study; so my next Spanish test will hopefully be better!

Adios amigos!
xoxo

"I'm going...

to the Jersey Shore b******!" -Snooki (Jersey Shore)




For the past few weeks, MTV's "Jersey Shore" has provided me with tons of entertainment! These self-proclaimed Guidos and Guidettes have literally taken reality tv by storm! They party, they drink, they creep, and they pick up girls. But not only that, these guys have actually provided me with some very interesting advice. Now you may be thinking that I'm absolutely crazy! Taking advice from "Snooki", "JWoww", "Pauly D", and "The Situation".... What?! But honestly, I believe that people can learn a lot from the cast of "Jersey Shore"! (props to GLAMOUR magazine for the idea!)

1. Confidence: The girls of "Jersey Shore" are the very definition of confident! These ladies aren't afraid to show off their body. Although some of their outfits are a bit revealing, they still believe in themselves enough to feel beautiful!

2. Summer is about funnn: As I'm sure all of us know, the summer season was made for having fun! The cast certainly believes it too! They are given an opportunity to seize to moment and have an amazing time... and they do! Personally, I think everyone should have the opportunity to "let loose" and have an amazing time during vacation. You only live once! So when the weather heats up, so should your social life!

3. Guys do care about their looks: If you are a "Jersey Shore" fan, it's obvious to you that the guys on the show are constantly concerning themselves about the way they look. I believe their philosophy was "GTL; gym, tan, laundry!" Anyway, their first priority was always the way they looked. I think that men actually should be concerned with their appearance. If you look sharp, it can help not only your personal life but also your life professionally.

4. It's hard to make a good impression, drunk: As Snooki learned, when you're intoxicated, it's always harder to make yourself look good. First impressions are very important. They're even harder when you aren't able to think rationally. Plus, if you're drunk; you can make yourself look dumb! Just use better judgement!

5. Make friends: In the beginning, each of the cast members had to meet each other for the very first time. At first, there was a lot of tension and harsh words; but in the end, they all bonded and became a family (minus Angelina). Within your life, you should always reach out to others. You never know the impact they may have on your life!


On another subject, completely; I watched the Superbowl last night and I was actually pleased. Since it was the first time the Saints were in the Superbowl, I cheered for them! So I'm really happy they brought home a victory. Plus, it's kinda symbolic of their journey after the impact of hurricane Katrina. So it was a good day! Also, I really enjoyed the commercials! Chandler and I would talk on the phone during the game, but once the commercials came on, we had to stop and pay attention! In my opinion, Doritos really rocked in terms of "funny commercials". Each one made me laugh hysterically! My favorite was the one featuring the little kid, his mother, and his mom's new date! Enjoy!



"Keep yo' hands off my momma, keep yo' hands off my doritos!"

xoxo

"I think the sexiest thing about a woman...

is confidence!" -Victoria (Posh) Beckham

Recently I participated in my school's annual pageant. The day of the pageant, I had to meet with the judges for a formal interview. During the interview I was asked, "Rebecca, do you believe that young women should should wear a lot of make-up, like foundation?" The question caught me a bit off guard. In my head I tried to think of the answer I thought the judges wanted to hear. I thought to myself, "of course not, young ladies should show their natural beauty!" But that answer didn't truely satisfy me. Instead I answered the question this way...

"I believe that a young woman should apply make-up in a way that makes herself happy!Personally, I think that a young lady feels most confident when she believes she looks stunning! If foundation, or other forms of make-up give you that feeling, there certainly isn't anything wrong with it! The most beautiful thing about a woman is her confidence."

Confidence is everything! Every woman, young or old, should live by this theory. If it makes you feel good about yourself, go for it! Whether it involves fashion, make-up, hairstyle, or activity; if it causes a confidence boost, keep it up! A woman should be classy, beautiful, smart; but most importantly, confident!


In other news: It's "Superbowl Sunday!" Which, really doesn't mean that much to me. I enjoy watching college football (especially Carolina), but professional football doesn't really catch my attention. However, I love love love Superbowl commercials! I absolutely cannot wait to see the funny moments brought to you by; Pepsi, Coke, Budweiser, Verizon, (and the other usually funny companies)... etc. Also, I did go see "Dear John" last night and it was absolutely amazing! I laughed, I cried, I cheered; basically it was a wonderful film. I would recommend it to anyone! Especially couples. It really brought Chandler and I closer. Plus, he really enjoyed the movie and may have even shed a tear; of course, he wouldn't admit it! In conclusion, I'll end with a quote from my favorite romance author; Nicholas Sparks:

"I finally understood what true love meant... love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be." - Nicholas Sparks (Dear John)

xoxo

"I believe in pink...

I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles!" -Audrey Hepburn

What is it that you believe in?! In today's society, it's too easy to get lost in material pleasures and forget what it is that you actually believe in. Everyday, America gets closer to becoming a civilization that "accepts everything". Morals, chivalry, even compassion are things of the past! Which is why, I created this blog. With society drifting toward "universal acceptance," I needed a place to remind myself, what I believe in. And maybe even vent a little!

For starters, a little bit about myself; I live in the most beautiful town in the world, Camden! It's common for other young residents to complain about the "small, boring, historic...." town that I call home. Unlike them, I am in love with my hometown. Out of all the places I've ever visited, none compare to the elegance and charm of this cute, minature city!
Anyway, I would describe myself as... unique; afterall, I haven't met one person exactly like me! I enjoy the finer things in life, such as clothing and accessories! Yet I remain level-headed and down-to-earth. I'm outgoing and adventerous, although, you probably wouldn't find me doing anything "overly-dangerous!" I'm a bit of a scardy cat when it comes to driving too fast or swimming too far out into the ocean! I love to try new things! Recently, my mother and I were considering cake-decorating classes. I've also found a new liking for golf and snow skiing!
As for the future, I've had my college picked out since, well, before I was born. It's a family tradition to attend the University of South Carolina. So I plan on becoming a Gamecock! As for a future occupation, I have two choices. I have a passion for journalism. I would love to become a Broadcast journalist! However, I would also enjoy entering the medical field. More specifically an Anesthesiologist! But enough about the boring stuff!

Today, is February 6, 2010; and I am sick as a dog! (Which has a lot to do with why I started this blog!) I'm extremely upset that I might not be able to see "Dear John" with my boyfriend tonight due to my fever and coughing! It's incredibly depressing considering I've been waiting to see this movie for like, 2 months! However, I'm extremely excited about next weekend, aka Valentine's Day! It will be mine and Chandler's second Valentine's day together... and I'm super excited! If only I could find a great gift to get him. hmmmm?

Okay, I'm off to stuff my face with more Tylenol and Chicken-Noodle Soup!



xoxo